Sadness

We lost our cat Pal today.  I wish I could say it was expected.  Unfortunately it was tragic.

We just moved in to a house that was built in 1855.  In the basement the original foundation is exposed and you can actually climb in to it (not that you would want to but you could).  Anyway, our cats “lived” downstairs (as in their cat litter, food and water were down there and the slept there but during the day/night they were always up in the main part of the house.

The other day, Ryun was unpacking the Beretta and bringing things in through the  bulkhead.  At one point as Ryun was coming in Pal poked his head out the door and Ryun shooed him back down the stairs.  We hadn’t seen him since then.  Ryun really didn’t think he had gotten out but that was the only explanation we could come up with.  We searched the house up, down left, right,  back, front, called for him, nothing.

Just to be 100% sure, Ryun climbed through the foundation (which is basically like a narrow cave type of deal) which the cats had been in and out of occasionally.  He crawled all the way back-which is pretty far-so far in fact we could only hear him if we yelled.  He found Pal at the bottom of an old well (which must have been in use when this house was built and before town water was added).  He was dead.  I am sure the landlord did not know it was there.  Ryun made him aware of it tonight and suggested strongly that it be filled in or capped off in some way.  Pal’s brother Joey’s new “home” will be the laundry room upstairs and away from any known danger.

We have had Pal since he was a kitten and he has been a part of our family since for 11 years.  Poor Pal.  I hope he didn’t suffer but I am pretty sure he did.  He really was my little buddy and I am pretty sure I was his favorite person.   I am going to miss him so much.

Movin’ On Up

The big move went off without a hitch.  Aside from the tragedy of a wine glass breaking (seriously-thank God I have plenty of those), the only other causality is the bruise on my hand that formed after I got my hand stuck between a box and the door.  Yeah, ouch.

Everything important is pretty much organized an in it’s place.  I am very excited to have a room that will be dedicated to scrapbooking/crafting.  It doubles as the laundry room but as far as laundry rooms go, it’s giant so there is plenty of room for both.   Curtains have been purchased and need to be hung.  Pictures/decorations have been hung in some places and not in others.  Ryun spent basically the day yesterday installing the wall mount tv.  Today he will be coming home and mowing the extremely long lawn.  I am excited to see how it will look when he is done-it is so long it now it is almost impossible to picture what it will look like short.

So far, living so close to town has far exceeded my expectations.  The older girls are loving the close proximity of some of their friends.  Both have been able to walk to a friends house or meet up with a friend somewhere.  The other day they walked to the town hall to see the art show (which elementary kids have the chance to visit during school hours but the middle and high school do not).  I am enjoying the much shorter commute to and from the store and the schools.  It has been a hectic and exciting month.

 

 

Yup…

…I am blogging when I should be packing. What of it?  If it weren’t for the last minute, nothing would ever get done, right?  No really, right?

Anyway, to say it has been an eventful and busy couple of weeks would be an understatement.  Packing and reading up on Celiac have consumed my life.  There has been so much going on I haven’t really had any time to think of-well anything else.

Julia had her endoscopy yesterday.  It went well except for the part when her stats went down while the scope was in.  They took it out and she was fine-then put it back in and nothing happened.  The biopsy will take some time to come back but just from the pictures alone, the doctor said her small intestine was “flat” and that even if he didn’t know what he was looking for he would say she had the intestine of someone with Celiac.  So, we have a positive blood test and imaging that confirms.  All that is left is the biopsy results which I should get at her followup appointment on May 7th.  At this point, there is pretty much no question about whether she has this-it’s just doing everything to see how much damage has been done and going from there.  We will officially start the gluten-free diet after the followup appointment.

As for moving, the big day is tomorrow.  Yes-I still have tons to do.  Thankful we don’t officially have to be out of here until April 30th so we have a couple of days after moving furniture that we can come back in and do get some of the smaller things done.  The painting at the new house is almost complete (will be finished today) and it is looking fantastic!  It truly is amazing what a fresh coat of paint can do!

And that is what’s happening in my neck of the woods.

 

Live From The Ocean Club

I can’t think of a time in my life when a vacation wouldn’t be welcome but never more so has this been true than now.  We are moving in a week.  Julia was just diagnosed with Celiac Disease.  We have a myriad of things to do related to both (packing, moving things, throwing things out, an appointment at Children’s, reading about the gluten-free diet, adapting to the diet, trying new foods, informing the school, getting her a health or 504 plan etc. etc. etc.).  A week off in the middle of all that?  I’ll take it.

We are staying at the Ocean Club right on Smuggler’s Beach.  I couldn’t have asked for better weather for an April beach vacation-we have been on the beach everyday playing in the sand.  Today, on the warmest day yet,  Emily and Katherine took the polar plunge.  They ran in, dove under and ran out.  I dipped my feet in the other day-my best guess for the water temperature-50 degrees?  Yes they are nuts.  Thank goodness there is a pool for those of us that aren’t quite that brave.

Of course, I would be lying if I said I wasn’t doing some reading about Celiac Disease and going gluten-free.  I have been a book called, “Celiac Disease: A Hidden Epidemic.”  I am only a few chapters in but so far it has been very informative.  The first couple of chapters basically detail the way a fully functioning digestive system works.  This is only one of the systems in a human body and reading through it really gave me a whole new perspective on how amazing the human body truly is.  I am just getting in to the Celiac part now.  I am amazed by how little gluten it takes to do damage-one crumb per day for three months wouldn’t even add up to a slice of bread in total but it is enough to damage the small intestine. I also learned that because gluten is such a sticky substance, it does not wash off in the dishwasher.  Keeping that in mind we will be getting a separate toaster, colander and pot/pan for Julia which will only be used to cook her bread, pasta etc.  Beyond that, it is amazing the things that I need to consider going forward-providing gluten-free options for her at school for any events that include food, sending gluten-free cupcakes, pizza etc. for any birthday parties she may be invited to,  bringing her own food to a big family event we attend every New Year’s Day that centers around pasta etc.  I also need to educate Julia-we have had some very basic conversations about this but she needs to know what is safe and what isn’t, understand that she can not “trade” snacks with her friends at school, can’t necessarily eat the snacks at family or friends parties etc.  I wish she had been diagnosed with this at a younger age so she wouldn’t have known the difference and it would have just been part of her life.  Now that she is older and has had 7 years of eating without any restriction about what (well except the normal making healthy choices, not overdoing it etc) I have a feeling this may be a little harder.

Speaking of being diagnosed at a younger age, many of you know Julia’s history of developmental delays-speech and language, physical, occupational and social delays etc.  After numerous therapies in all areas she has really made unbelievable progress.  She  is for the most part a “typical” kid at this point.  Many kids with delays go gluten-free and see marked improvements.  This is seen especially in children on the autism spectrum.  I am very interested in seeing how this will affect Julia in the present and can’t help but wonder how it would have affected her in the past.

Anyway, that’s what’s been going on in my neck of the woods.  Now-off to the beach!

Celiac-Confirmed

Julia had an appointment today with the GI doctor from Children’s.  She reviewed her blood test results and diagnosed her officially with Celiac Disease.  For those who don’t know, this means that she will have to be on a completely gluten-free diet, but it won’t begin until after the biopsy of her small intestine to even more officially confirm.  Next steps include an appointment for her endoscopy, a meeting with a nutritionist at Children’s Hospital (both within the next week or two)  and a follow-up with the GI doctor in about a month.

For many reasons, I am feeling overwhelmed-not the least of which is how insanely busy the next month is going to be-with moving taking place at the end of the month, what looks to be multiple doctor visits for Julia, and oh did I mention we are going away for the week of April vacation (plans that were made well before the plan to move and obviously before we knew about Julia)?

I am thankful for the support we will have-in the form of my aunt and close friends who have a daughter Julia’s age with Celiac.  Overwhelming-yes.  Earth-shattering no.  Things could always be worse and, in an effort to look at the bright side-this piece of bad news came during a time when our family has had a lot of really good news, for which I am very thankful.

Onward and upward.

I’ve Got A Feeling

In a case of “always listen to your gut” (no pun intended) we have this: Remember the story of Julia having the random instances of throwing up with no signs or symptoms of illness? Most people said, “Probably a random stomach virus.” My gut said, “No, something is not right.”

The doctor called this afternoon confirming that one of the two tests that they administered for Celiac Disease came back abnormal. This is not 100% indicative of Celiac but given the family history, she thought it was pretty likely.

I explained this to Julia in a very basic way by saying that we have to go to another doctor for more tests and that she might have to eat a special kind of bread, pizza etc. if the doctors say to.  So classic Julia thinks about this for a minute and responds with, “Please don’t tell me it will have to be pepperoni pizza-because I HATE pepperoni!”  Love how kids can say just the right thing to make you laugh when you are stressed!

So, on the agenda for tomorrow-a phone call to the Children’s Hospital Celiac Disease Program.

And on the agenda for the rest of my life-ALWAYS listening to my gut.

Allergy? Intolerance? Hmmm…

Julia woke this morning, announced her intention to throw up, and followed through.. All symptoms of the stomach bug were present and she seemed extremely uncomfortable and sick. Obviously, I kept her home. Just a few short hours later, she is 100 % fine-as in eating regular food, acting like her usual adorable self and having no further symptoms of illness. Even minutes after getting sick I was thinking she could go to BOKS and school but I knew the 24 hour rule and stuck to it.

I thought she had the stomach bug. Now, after reconsidering, I think she has some sort of food allergy or intolerance. This is not the first time in the last six months that she has had symptoms of the stomach bug with no stomach bug present. She has had at least three other random occasions of illness, after which she was better immediately and no one else got sick. With the family history (my sister and nephew with pretty severe food allergies/asthma, an aunt with Celiac’s, a cousin with a wheat allergy etc) it wouldn’t exactly be shocking if she had something like this going on.

I think I will start figuring this out by journaling her food so I can better track what could be causing these symptoms. Last night, if this is in fact what is going on it was pizza and a cupcake at Katherine’s award ceremony (which could be either a dairy/lactose or gluten thing so tough to tell). I think a call to the pediatrician is on order as well, if only to get his opinion on things (which I am sure will include tracking what she eats).

Does anyone else have any experience with this type of thing? Please feel free to share your story and an advice you may have!

Election

All of my Middleboro peeps know there is a town election coming up on April 7th, right? There are two contested elections going on. The Board of Selectmen have one seat open and three people running. Running for selectman are incumbent Stephen McKinnonm former Selectwoman Mimi Duphily and Thomas Stevens. The School Committee has two seats open and three people running. Running for School Committee are incumbent Greg Thomas, Tobey Eugenio and Robert Dragunas.

Tonight provides the perfect opportunity for you to get to know the candidates better and use that knowledge to make an informed decision on April 7th. The Middleboro Gazette and the Middleboro Council on Aging will be hosting a candidates forum tonight at the Council on Aging building, 558 Plymouth Street at 7pm. Candidates will share their views on local issues as well as answer audience questions. I plan to attend.

Middleboro Gas and Electric Meeting

There will be a very important meeting of the Middleboro Gas and Electric Commission, on Friday, March 16th at 7:30pm at the Town Hall in the selectmen’s meeting room.

The G&E Commission will be releasing 9 years of executive session minutes.
This is a gross violation of open meeting law. Included in those minutes is the negotiation of the General Managers contract which was illegally voted on and signed in executive session. This contract made the general manager the highest paid manager of a municipal utility in the State, at $188,850 +3,631.73 productivity bonus, for a total of $192,481.71. He also has a vehicle, gas card, full medical and dental insurance, fifteen vacation days, twelve holidays and two floating holidays. His salary has increased by $32,481.71 in the last 3 years. His performance reviews and subsequent raises have also all occurred in executive session.

The G&E Commission also has to discuss four Open Meeting Law violations.

The Board then plans on another Executive Session to “Conduct negotiations about General Manager’s Employment contract, including without limitation Annual Base Salary Performance Adjustment.”

Please attend this meeting on Friday, March 16th at 7:30 and put a stop to these abuses of the public trust.

Thank you!

Don’t Judge A Book Update

My Facebook status from the other day:

Got a call back from the owner of Capeway Convenience who apologized profusely for his employees actions. Not sure if it is worth pursuing anything further. I won’t be shopping there again, and from the amount of comments/shares my post got, it doesn’t sound like anyone else who has seen the story will either. Glad he called back and owned up to the awful behavior of his employee-and told me to tell the girls they are more than welcome to go back (not that I plan on that but good to know just the same).

An apology is all I really wanted. He mentioned that he handled the situation on that end-I didn’t ask what that meant. Truthfully, I was not looking to get someone fired-that is just not my style.

If nothing else, this certainly was eye-opening. I am very glad that I am raising my kids to be open and accepting of people. I hope the store manager has learned something as well.